What do I want my obituary to say?

I want my obituary to say that he accomplished something big and he was a great person. But to tell the truth, I wont do something like that. So I just want it to say that he did not accomplish a big thing, but he was a tolerant person, and he was kind to everyone. Also, he listened to others in old age.

I think humankind get more obstinate because we make our opinions clear as grow up. So I want to be a person who listens to others. I don’t want to be a grandfather who always speak to others and is disliked to be with.